Dating.....or not ?

This one's gonna be a book someday and maybe soon. But right now, I'm just gonna help people not get used.

Here's the thing. India doesn't date. They exploit. Why ? Happens to have a mixed hypocritical mindset hanging between finding love through dating and arranged marriages.

Arranged marriages are getting a good deal through online portals or match makers. These happen to be good deals because of the seriousness of its approach (parents are the ones that scan). It's a good thing if you can see beyond mind blocks. But that us hard because all of us were patterned to think we'd have our love stories someday. Perpetually, that is so not true.

On the other hand, there are a few dating options online and they are an absolute no no. Why ? Well, the people on it are looking for 'ego boost', 'revound', 'flings' etc. Are they looking for a life partner? Literally no. The ones who are looking for life partners are actual on more serious sites. Why isn't dating serious? Well, the so called modern generation in india dates in complete privacy. They have secret dates who sometimes get married too but that's pretty rare. People happen to have very bad amounts of experience with the opposite sex because of poor ratios in plenty fields eg. Engineering. So, this is why they date.....to be able to gain some experience. Obviously, it ends up getting twisted.

Lastly, the younger generation is too insecure to even be in love. Why? Because they don't even know what to focus on. Some will even  come up with ideas about long term as 'kinky'. Well. ....priority much?

Maybe it'll be someday a little better. But right now, I'd say.....Stay away. And if you're on any of these places for very innocent reasons, you can test the waters but I suggest you keep you boundaries. You are the only protector of yourself. This ground is not a good place.....instead gp out,dance....maybe sing. Do things you've wanted to do. I found great guys simply at a badminton match over any of these stupid dating sites. Makes sense, the secure individuals with healthy social circles were very rarely on those sites.

So why waste time? Time is money....you know and memories