what if u go to a pub?

.....No it is not about young men in a gang shouting away and partying.......
 what if it were?

SCENARIO 1)A gang of guys.....
ask the ladies "no, what problem ?they r enjoying......that y they r youngsters"
wonderfully modern thoughts.

And change the scenario
SCENARIO 2)a gang of girls...
                                                   "no it's okay........but not that nice if u party this late!!!!! ":)  ironical.
                    .......some nice ones will say "take it lightly....young girls, let them enjoy before marriage"

SCENARIO 3)some middle aged ladies
                                                        "they think they are still young for this stuff"
                                                        "cultural hazards"

SCENARIO 4)and now this sets fire to it!!!!single mothers....divorcee or not
                                                          "bad women......what will the children learn?"
 -This is exactly what a girl faces in our society and yes i'm talking of the country i'm proud of, INDIA .And necessarily my state in this context......but it's the matter with the whole country.Honestly how many of you don't think like this?I too must be honest here......and i shamefully agree to certain extents i didn't know the gravity of such words.In an avg middle class family or a lil above that these are things like 'no going to pubs'-not that they r to highlight the blind beliefs but at times for our personal security.Here the norms are same for a boy or a girl.

 -inspired by 'crime patrol dastak'

I will be talking about the very breaking new months back -case of 'RITA GOMES', mother of two children.
This lady's police complaint was baselessly rejected as mostly her being a single mother and going to the pub made her vulnerable to legal rapes!I mean who the hell are u to decide so?And deny justice to any lady.If cases could be so easily confirmed without further investigation then corrupted crimes weren't crimes!you mean criminals aren't intelligent?they don't try to bluff?????
Further no medical examination was being done.On mere threats it was initiated but how?Legally such cases should have a lady constable along and a lady doctor.In this case such was overlooked.
Justice was easily denied to this lady why?.....not because it is kolkata!But the thoughts weren't right.
Mostly being a single mother stood on her path to justice.And all this she gets to hear for being the only bread earner to her family?????think about it.
If it were a guy-?????sympathy!!!!!and lots of it!
Alas an honest lady police officer took over the case and turned the case inside out.3 convicted were successfully arrested other 2 were 'farar'.    
[The case being such that 1-the main accused had met lady (rita) in the pub and offered her a job.Later she couldn't get a taxi and offered her a lift to a nearby taxi stand.Things turned differently.Initially only 2 front seats of the car were occupied later mid way 3 other people pushed into the last seat to repeat the horrendous / hideous deed which we r trying to eradicate.The 3 freaks had used identities of 3 men visiting the same gym as theirs.->and u said criminals weren't intelligent?]
Once again a question stands on where our values are?What culture do we talk of?........if Rakhi's short skirt is spoiling our culture then what is this?......Showing our thoughts........our culture?The NANDALALS have always spoken far and big done nothing...........but our thoughts our actions are far more dangerous and harmful.Our voices now take intelligent shortcuts but our fear enhanced.......our honestly and courage disgraced!Such things happen even right before us how many keep quiet?.......all?yes the one who speaks is blasted........bt what if all spoke usually history says the intruders are less in number.I'm a part like u.......not a great person but atleast try to be.These words of wisdom are equally applicable to me.