the special ring

Sundari the prettiest of all women in town rakhanganj near gujrat had this special ring.It could be owned by just one person.let me tell you a little about rakahnganj-it was surrounded by little sand dunes some cactus(that were the source of water) and endless wonders. being a  barren land no one discovered it and it still is wondrous!
sundari's being the prettiest had everything that god could could gie her with birth i.e. power,figure,strength,fortune,faith,hope etc.But her house was at the edge of the village......a strong tin roof with even stronger cemented base.It made a one room enough to keep herself.It was life's irony that she had everyone in her relations yet they weren't beside her.They met like strangers and departed as even the water sources were seperate.Then why did Sundari have the special ring?
THE RING-it was a custom to give every 'bahu' the traditional ring which passed from generation to generation!

                   Sundari was married to Debsingh Rathor the then son of wealthiest man.They beleived that this                            ring  had the power to destroy and create.It chose the lady all by itself.. If a generation follows      you  the ring has chosen you otherwise it has rejected you.Unfortunately for Sundari the ring  rejected her husband form his life.Those mournfully mornings still fill the air with shock and her ill health gives way to tremor.Those horrrible abuses and those blames.....she was happier here atlest she had her own loneliness which never complained. She was deserted in the desserts of life yet she lived on......is this not special about the ring.
Even today the sun cracks though the dessert sands and brings heat again at night the winds give shivering bones.And yet the little special ring is burried somewhere in those sands where Sundari lives on in the memory of the sands. We humans can eb so wise that we give a ring the power to decide someone's destiny!aren't we puppets of superstition?

so called grown ups?.......zzzzzzz

take a deep breath and look into teh mirror.......look at ur self......your 18+ then your a grown and are you so?now go to the fridge and take out that mouth watering toblerone or cadbury bournville.what do  want to do with it first?lick it and ofcourse you'll do it unless the elders are around.so growing up is fearing elder's criticism.so who's better?brave children or grown coward grown up?........got it

 now lets move on.......who smokes?grown ups......as kids they are not even interested.then who's intelligent............children or grown ups?further children want to grow up while grown ups want to go back!....

who quarrels less......statistically children!whose got better reasons?children.....oh seems like their 'palla bhari hai'

keep your originality and what were you originally .... (don't think so much!)~child!isin't it?

WAKE UP SID!

there's just one meaning of growing up......to understand the unsaid truth behind those lies,to makeup for the mistake that your friend has done,to know what relations give us(security),to know those secrets behind those artificial smiles and to catch hold of those mysterious smiles to unwrap those secrets.the rest is as good as a child or worse.no difference....everything's not maggi sauces(it's different).....

The longer you take life simply just like a child there will be more +ive things(B+ive) and things more simple...........once things are simple people will understand you more simply and finally teh world will be simple.And yet there will be people who will cheat you and you would say i didn't drink but the drank man hit me and i'll have to pay!forget it do the simple and don't harm ur self knowingly because that's stupidity beyond samajhdari!it's true virtual goals are obtained by those stupid pushers but teh real goals are achieved by those standing in the queue finally.....and always beleive yourself you'll have it before your day breaks (ultimatum)!

naughty knots

have you ever thought about those things that create our life's complications or even solve it , in totality what makes our lives!
take a closer look.have a gf or bf?gosh you've added trouble......:D!

why do we fight more importantly with whom do we fight?
where does anger come from or for whom?
each knot(relation) makes us little less efficient ,gets onto our nerves and our devil gets loose !It's knots for which we do that what we would not like to see ourselves do.but face the mirror......if there's teh mirror it's only showing that you not someone else!If our knots create friction then it creates more strength to handle failure and this is the only thing that's always beside us.

when you design a machine.....it needs many parts where each is dependent on each other.....and there's friction too and it must overcome it.so is our relations.
marriage,partner,mother ,father.family,cousin,sister,brother etc. etc. so on are those knots!If we're not careful it will definitely tear!be careful!