Can I make you fall in love with me? Again?

Here's something very not me. I don't believe in some things and this is one of them. Remember the teenage soap of "Dil Dosti Dance", a dance romcom college soap that had this concept. I was amazed, definitely smitten by the 'Swayam' character and somewhere a lot of the youth I believe would have wanted a Sharon Swayam coupling for themselves. Now, I didn't believe in it, however, lately on my journey of love.....this has been a very different journey where I am beginning to feel differently.

There are different kinds of people that you would meet personally  ( I believe that's the first step to love/friendship)- some self-obsessed, some care but are unable to take a stand, some care and take the stand, some don't care all by themselves but they care because somebody else they love cares (this one believe me, let go). So what do I mean?

I mean: If it's true and you have a slight spark ( which may not be evident always), you may fall in love if one of the 2 people are fighting for it. Nonetheless for it to survive, you too have to throw in yourself and work for it. But it's the most beautiful feeling when you mean so much to someone, that they really only care about you ( in complete sense ). Look around you, maybe your best friend, maybe your favourite neighbour, maybe someone else. Rethink your life,  place all the people who you hold in high esteem and who have stayed when it really was difficult, count them now. That's love. Trust me, shiny clothes, expensive suits are easy to love but ragged human beings are the hardest to love. And if you had a friend smile at you then, that's what I mean is love. That's one of the reasons I have never believed in party friends.....I mean you're friends because I give you a party? Excuse me, I got better friends.....I'd rather spend my life on them than money on stuff that's so virtual. That doesn't mean you must not party.....just make sure they're the ones who stay (always).

I ditched my dear friend once and I regret it even today. They were done for selfless reasons, however, that's still something I aught fix. Have an excellent day....how? Make sure you're loved. That's how!

For young ladies out there : Forget handsome, forget rock star, fall in love with your best friend ( if you're lucky to have one). That's the only character that can make you fall in love more with life everyday. Trust me, there's always a more handsome guy, but there's never a better friend.....never. Don't set standards, love doesn't count boundaries.....it must be given and taken 'freely', otherwise it's not true enough.

For men : If you've grown up, you probably know being virtual doesn't go long run.

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