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The fact that society creates a negative impression on the word 'emotional' is clear from the first image we see when we think of 'someone emotional' as in the earlier post. However each of us are endowed with emotions of varying degrees, priorities may differ though. We normally shy away from any kind of negative emotion display in public including 'crying','anger' or other stuff. In the process you create 'a split you' in public and in private. What we have to learn is to be comfortable with who we are. You look great without make up, you also look great while crying, it's just that we want you to be happy.
Why should we be Comfortable?
High heels can be fun but the uncomfortable ones are a disaster. Being emotional makes you strong. There is one thing any person cannot bear, it is not poverty or hunger, it is 'not being loved'. And to be loved you must know yourself, be yourself and love yourself. If your emotions cannot be acceptable, are 'you' being loved? or are you compromising? Maybe. Life and death are the happiest and saddest of moments. A person who runs from emotions will be further bruised every day while an emotional person will be satisfied that he/she has spent quality time with him/her. You will also be able to better express yourself and be out of it.
Be Vulnerable ?
If you cry in the hall, you will be victim to many. People will know your weaknesses? Solution? Remember 'being emotional' is not a weakness but a strength. However who you are emotional towards has to be defined by you. Only your close ones should be the people who can hurt you and knowing how sensitive,how expressive and how emotional you are can help them know you and also hurt you less. A stranger cannot use this because you are not weakened by him, unless ofcourse you saw Tom Cruise, seriously? :D I said stranger, every girl is married to Tom Cruise ;).
Someone had asked me once- 'When do you write?'. I said 'When I feel like it,the urge within'. He found it amazing and laughed, I didn't.
So are you emotional, sensitive, expressive? Are you yourself? I am me.....
The fact that society creates a negative impression on the word 'emotional' is clear from the first image we see when we think of 'someone emotional' as in the earlier post. However each of us are endowed with emotions of varying degrees, priorities may differ though. We normally shy away from any kind of negative emotion display in public including 'crying','anger' or other stuff. In the process you create 'a split you' in public and in private. What we have to learn is to be comfortable with who we are. You look great without make up, you also look great while crying, it's just that we want you to be happy.
Why should we be Comfortable?
High heels can be fun but the uncomfortable ones are a disaster. Being emotional makes you strong. There is one thing any person cannot bear, it is not poverty or hunger, it is 'not being loved'. And to be loved you must know yourself, be yourself and love yourself. If your emotions cannot be acceptable, are 'you' being loved? or are you compromising? Maybe. Life and death are the happiest and saddest of moments. A person who runs from emotions will be further bruised every day while an emotional person will be satisfied that he/she has spent quality time with him/her. You will also be able to better express yourself and be out of it.
Be Vulnerable ?
If you cry in the hall, you will be victim to many. People will know your weaknesses? Solution? Remember 'being emotional' is not a weakness but a strength. However who you are emotional towards has to be defined by you. Only your close ones should be the people who can hurt you and knowing how sensitive,how expressive and how emotional you are can help them know you and also hurt you less. A stranger cannot use this because you are not weakened by him, unless ofcourse you saw Tom Cruise, seriously? :D I said stranger, every girl is married to Tom Cruise ;).
Someone had asked me once- 'When do you write?'. I said 'When I feel like it,the urge within'. He found it amazing and laughed, I didn't.
So are you emotional, sensitive, expressive? Are you yourself? I am me.....
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